4 steps to help you manifest your soulmate.
It’s fair to say that most (if not all) people want love in their life. Sharing your life, experiences and presence with another soul gives people a sense of fulfilment that they yearn for. Having that ride or die confidant is necessary in life because they will help you navigate difficult times and feel supported.
However, it’s not always easy to meet your soulmate. For some people, they get lucky and meet them at a fairly young age. For others, they endure a midlife crisis because they haven't found someone to share their life and blessings with. Although we have discussed four steps to help you manifest whatever you want in life, we did not delve into a specific example of manifestation- which is love.
As an extension of our previous piece, we have outlined four simple steps to help you manifest the love of your life.
Step 1: Understand that you are worthy of love.
You can’t manifest love into your life if you don’t believe you are worthy of receiving it. When you want to manifest something, you need to convince the universe that you deserve it. However, this can be a difficult concept to navigate, especially when it comes to love. Most people have endured a few heartbreaks. Naturally, each heartbreak might discourage you to find love or feel like you are worthy of love. This is because you may have given it your all in that relationship, and you still broke up with that person. That can sting.
However, it’s super important to shift your mindset to something that’s more positive. You can do this by understanding that each relationship teaches you what you do and don’t want in a partner. This will allow you to reflect on what qualities you admire, and how you are eventually worthy of receiving it from another person.
Step 2: Write down what you want.
It’s time to get down to business and reflect. You can’t manifest your future partner if you don’t know what you want. Sit for a few minutes and think about all the qualities you want your partner to possess. Write them down. Read them outloud for the universe to hear. Place them on a bulletin board. Look at them every single day and believe that your special someone does in fact exist. Be as specific as you can in your list.
Listed below contains some examples of qualities you might want your partner to possess:
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Kind
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Loyal
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Honest
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Integrity
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Intelligent
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Independent
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Sense of humor
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Emotionally mature
Step 3: Visualize the life you want with your partner.
It’s great that you’ve written down all the qualities you want in your partner, but that’s not enough. Now you have to visualize the life you want with them. It’s important to note that just because someone may possess the qualities you want doesn’t mean that their vision in life aligns with yours. That’s why it’s very important to also think about the kind of life you want to live with them. Do you see kids in your future? The geographic location you want to settle down in? Do you want to own pets? What kind of hobbies do you want to immerse yourselves in? There’s a myriad of experiences you can visualize. Don’t neglect this.
Step 4: Trust the timing of your life.
It’s easy to compare our lives to the lives of others. You notice your friends getting engaged and/or married, and you start to wonder why you can’t find a partner. It seems like it comes easy when you’re watching other people and their lives. So why isn’t happening to you? It’s because the timing of your life is different from everyone else's life.
Drop the mindset that you need to have certain things completed at a certain age. You don’t need to be in a long term relationship and meet your soulmate at a specific age. When you start to focus on the timeline, you will start to block your blessings because you will settle for something that’s not meant for you. You will unfortunately develop a desperate attitude towards prospects, and this is something we don’t want to happen.
“You have to focus on yourself, feel as good as you can, and make your relationship with yourself a priority. When you do that, everything else will fall into place.”
― Elizabeth Daniels